Glad to see you are making points instead of just asking questions today. I like it.
So, we are still in the demean and destroy stages. Demean with academic terms like white privilege and micro aggressions and calling anyone who remotely differs with the protesters viewpoint horrible names. Then, get them fired, humiliated, whatever. The protests introduce the destroy stage, where property, people, institutions are attacked, and innocents and historians are peripheral damage. Destroy their peace of mind, destroy their quiet, uneventful lives.
Maybe, after all that, we arrive at a demand stage.
Here's an idea. Just skip to the demand stage, lay off the defund the police hyperbole, and put forth concrete proposals. Put forth the costs. Tell "white people" as you describe them what they, their families, their communities will have to pay in time and money. All people whatever their race are going to protect their family's welfare. In achieving national or societal goals, every American family starts inside their house in dealing with costs of personal vs civic vs political. And yes, there are costs for all sides.
African Americans have every right to demand equality and fair treatment. It is our unfulfilled promise. Current day "white americans" as you call them, have an interest in that, and also in their family's future. When push comes to shove, it does not come down to black and white. It comes down to each person and each family. It comes down to each heart. It comes down to the balance every one of us faces in setting familial priorities, caring about our countries, and our fellow man.
The only monolithic block here is not "white Americans." It is humanity, broken into smaller, more personal groups that all think differently, and all want freedom, joy, safety, for they and their loved ones, whatever their race.
Quit the name calling and fancy nomenclature and lay out some details. Big words scare people.