Praising someone for a job well done is fine. Lavishing them with praise because if you don't, your ass is grass is manipulation and is what happens in North Korea.
Kissing a politician's ass is shameful and only a damn fool does that. You are a damn fool. I get that. But everyone else that does it is too.
Go pat your family members on the back and don’t waste your time with us. We don’t need you or your advice. We’re too busy being productive and winning. So Move along. As usual your whining and not working and in the way of those that are. Thanks for your understanding.